Wednesday, November 16, 2016

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* A portrait of my children, once a week, every week, in 2016*

Matteo: A few months ago, you said "Mama, are you sure Halloween will happen again this year?"  You fell in love with this wonderful, spooky, candy-filled holiday last year and have probably been dreaming of its return ever since.  We finally made it to the great pumpkin patch, one day before Halloween.  The place was deserted, so we got to run up and down the long orange-lined avenue looking for our perfect pumpkin.  When we got home, you and Papa carved one and now it's sitting proudly by the front door, waiting for the first trick-or-treaters to arrive.

Lilah: You're not too sure what all the Halloween fuss is about, but you had a lot of fun riding in the wagon and digging around in the dirt in that big orange field we visited.

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Matteo: The weekend before Halloween, we went to a fall festival with a giant pumpkin weighing contest and a kids costume contest.  You were very interested in the giant forklift contraption they used to move the heavy pumpkins onto the scale.  You wore your washing machine costume and nearly every person we passed commented on how fantastic you looked.  I felt like I was with a celebrity!  You got very quiet and I worried that you didn't like all the attention.  When I asked you about it later, you said you loved it.  I think you were very proud to be a washing machine.  You ended up winning the kids costume contest, too!  The prizes were a toy robot and a chocolate-dipped marshmallow from the local chocolate company.  It was a very exciting day!

Lilah: I made you a laundry basket costume to go with your brother's washing machine, but you really hated wearing it.  Plan B was "Little Miss Sunshine," which you preferred because it didn't restrict your movement.  You wore a sash that said "Little Miss" and I glued a felt sun onto your yellow dress.  We figured you still matched your brother, since the sun is kind of an eco-friendly dryer.  Plus, this costume really matches your sunny little personality.  Your favorite part of the Halloween festivities at the zoo was crawling around in the crunchy leaves on the grass.  You have been standing a lot and taking a few tentative steps at a time this week, but you still prefer to crawl on uneven surfaces.  It's very exciting that you are so close to being able to walk and keep up with brother (or maybe he'll be keeping up with you!)

P.S. Your brother is making funny noises to try to attract your attention in this photo.

Monday, November 7, 2016

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Matteo: Recently Overheard Things:

"What if I could jump all the way to the top of the building and climb around the ceiling?  Wouldn't that be cool?"

"Well, 'funny meow' means you laugh so hard and you can't stop laughing!" (When asked what 'funny meow' means)

"I named my sister 'Somanyhair' because she has so many hairs!"

(At Target) "Mama, I'm in the sponge aisle!"

(After Mama put on perfume) "You smell like my grandma!"

"I want to brush my teeth with my own self!"

"Look, Mama, I'm doin' my work job." (While "cleaning" the house with the mop)

(When asked what a bus is made of) "Motor, tires, steering wheel, tire pump, ice cream, gas pedal (a little one and a big one), horn."

"I'm a hungry tiger!"

"Whales are bumpy and swumpy.  Papa, what does 'swumpy' mean?"

"Mama, you're a noodle head!  A noodle head is someone who eats noodles."

"When I'm bigger, I'll send you some sunglasses and one vacuum and a giant house!"

"Guess what, Mama!  I saw a TV in that garage!  It was a real working TV!  Call Papa and tell him the football game is on!"

"Google if potato bugs have teeth.  Google it, Mama!"

First thing in the morning:
"I wear underoos!"
"Open your eyes, Mama!"
"I really love suitcases!"
"Can I play with my sister?"
"Where are we going today?"

(Singing) "I want to yell and help tonight!"

"You look like a hair princess!" (to Lilah)

"Pumpkins are orange because they were grown in the hospital and they have been painted orange just like oranges.  Oranges are orange because they are orange."

"Mama, this is your dancin' rug and this is my dancin' rug, ok?"

(Telling me about your dream) "I had a dream about a shark and it was trying to eat me!  I was so frightened I hid under the covers.  But the second one was a nice one.  It was me and Mama hugging each other and floating above the sky."

(Another dream) "Mama and Matteo were flying to the moon on a canoe with Papa and Lilah.  Then we ate a popsicle on the moon, all of our family."

"I want to keep Mommy and Daddy forever!  All the way until Christmas!'

Lilah: The cupboard toy bandit strikes again.

Tuesday, October 11, 2016

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 *A portrait of my children, once a week, every week, in 2016*

Matteo: Fall is a beautiful time of year as the aspens begin to turn striking palettes of rich yellow.  We went for a drive this weekend to do some tree spotting and family bonding.  During the trip, we started talking about potato bugs and you asked me if they eat potatoes.  You also asked me why fast water has a current and which kinds of trees don't turn yellow ("Evergreens?" I guessed, to which you replied: "No, I mean the tropical ones.")  You are getting too smart.  Thank goodness for Google.

Lilah: Your first drawing in pink marker!  Most of it ended up on the paper.




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Matteo: The hamburger dance.  We all managed to sit at the table for lunch together on this sunny afternoon.  We even used a nice tablecloth (with an Easter pattern...in October...but it still felt special to all be together).

Lilah: This morning you laid next to me sleeping so sweetly with the late morning light on your face, snoring just the teensiest bit.  As I made a move to get my camera, you immediately started to wake up, stretching your arms lazily over your head.  When you opened your eyes, you noticed the little dog that Matteo brought to you before you fell asleep and you smiled so happily, remembering its existence.

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Matteo and Lilah: The two of you fall so naturally into your own rhythm of play, creating what feel like conspiratorial little worlds.  Today, I watched you tuck yourselves away behind the curtains and pick leaves together through the open window.  This is what I always hoped having a sibling would look like.  Makes this only child Mama's heart swell.

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Matteo: The face of someone who takes watering his pumpkin patch very seriously.  It's coming along nicely--I think there are five little pumpkins and one big one at the moment (that giant one in the middle is a transplant from the grocery store).

Lilah: The face of someone who is so very proud of her new skill.  You have started standing up on your own, and we're all pretty proud and excited, too!




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Matteo: Pushing Snowball on the swings.  "He wants to go high-errr!"

Lilah: Taking in the tall trees and pretty light as it filters through the forest canopies.

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Matteo: "Mama, this is a potion for bugs and slugs.  I'm going to pour it on all the plants."  In case you're wondering, the ingredients for a very fine bugs and slugs potion are: water, dish soap, marigold petals, leaves, a pinch of dirt and determination.

Lilah: Happy birthday, my sweet baby girl!  I can't believe how quickly it has gone.  One year ago, Matteo and I made a pumpkin cheesecake in the afternoon to welcome the month of September.  Little did we know that it would actually be your birthday cake!  That night, my water broke as I stood up from tucking Matteo into his little toddler bed and off we all went to the hospital.  The next morning, you were here and a cold pumpkin cheesecake was waiting for us in the refrigerator when we got home.  Since then, Matteo has outgrown that little toddler bed and you have outgrown three sizes of clothing.  You have brought so much joy to our family.  Your smile is generous and your love is, too.  You are sweet and curious and happy and bright.  Even on the most challenging days (like when both kids cry in unison and I don't know where to begin between you), I have felt like you fit perfectly into that Lilah-sized space that was waiting to make our family puzzle complete.  Thank you for such a perfect gift.  We love you, little one.

Below: What a difference a year makes!

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Matteo: Your friend, Snowball the bunny, has been going everywhere with you lately.  You've grown more attached to him than to any other stuffed animal before.  He has been joining us at the dinner table, at the grocery store and in the garden for tomato harvesting.  He has really long soft ears and a lot of personality in his big blue eyes.  I always hoped you would bond with a stuffed animal, but you haven't been overly interested before now.  I'm excited to see how this new phase develops.  "Don't forget to give Snowball a snack, Mama!" you said yesterday afternoon.  Don't worry, I'll make sure Snowball is well fed on carrots and kisses, just like you.

Lilah: Only one week until those little hands and feet turn ONE.  You love to dig around in the dirt and pull petals off of the bright orange marigolds in our garden.  You are looking more and more like a big girl, especially with those itty bitty pigtails I made you wear.

Thursday, September 8, 2016

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Matteo: Somersaulting across the hotel bed is the best.

Lilah: You have started waving all the time, opening and closing your little fingers like a blinker, whenever you catch someone looking at you.  It is the cutest thing to see you using this new form of communication.  Also, your brother is so sweet to you, always finding little treasures to make you smile.

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Matteo: Holding a little porcelain doll with flaxen ringlets in one hand, while trying to break into Grandpa's truck with the other.

Lilah: My little fairy, glowing so beautifully in the sun.  I can't believe you are almost ONE.

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Matteo: Hunting for rocks at the Oregon coast on a perfect sunny day.

Lilah: Your first time at the Oregon coast, running your little fingers through sand and across smooth stones.

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Matteo: We took you to the Enchanted Forest this summer, which is a fairy tale-inspired theme park that has been around since I was little.  You had an amazing day darting through castles and rabbit holes, sliding down a giant witch's hat and riding your first roller coaster.  It was such a joy for me to watch you making your own memories at a place that held so much magic for me as a child.

Lilah: One month away from your first birthday!  You love to explore outside and are always finding things to put in your mouth.  My dramatic "BLECH!" each time you pick up something inedible, like a leaf or flower, only seems to encourage you to put it right in your mouth. 

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Matteo: The double sponge deluxe wash: only the best for Nana's car.

Lilah: You have been entertaining audiences with this funny little face all summer.  We call it your "bitter beer" face.  I think you may have inherited it from Papa!

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Matteo: Watching you play outside on a perfect summer afternoon fills my heart with such joy.

Lilah: Exploring the moss and dirt and all the best that Oregon has to offer.

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Matteo: In the Oregon countryside, collecting pine cones and leaves, picking blackberries, and enjoying fresh homemade peach ice cream.

Lilah: Contemplating the shadows on your tray in the magical Oregon light.